Poll:who is wrong in this arguement?This is our convo, long.?

i personally think she was wrong for not just asking you in the first place is your status about me and because she let her cousin say "I'm going to beat you up" where im from we don't take fighting with people we barely know lightly at all. how you supposed to know she was joking and she is not your friend? it would be different if y'all all was close but that's her friend not yours. smh you don't need bffs like that